so issues with dating

I had a rough road trying to date it not easy to go out there and have autism and try to find someone. I always wonder if I should tell them that I have autism or not. I am a nice person so a lot of people seem to use me because of that so it hard to know if I being taken for a ride or not. so it been a slow going process for me. I also working on the ideas of being nicer to myself and not beating myself a lot if something happens during a date or they never talk to me again. so you guys have any though share them thanks