taking a step back

I have been quiet lately because I was just super busy. What I wanted to share about today is that I took a break from dating, and I was focusing on myself It eye opening when you decide to do this because It was dating always been about the other person needs and not my own. So working on my needs and then over time going back into the dating world again.One the things I learn for me it hard for me to say no having sex or any of that if I haven’t had time to think about it, I need that space to decide if I want to be with that person and can’t be rushed into it. I never saw that until now but its truth for me, I need that connection with that person before I go all the way with you. I need to build the trust of the other person and vice vera. It a two-way street. That it for now more to come